FAQ

Q: Is this a safe space for me?

A: No such place exists. This work is designed as a ritual space where you can meet your edges and try new things. Temple is a safer place when attendees have a solid understanding of their triggers and how to regulate themselves. If you can give a full-body “yes,” or “no,” you’ve got a solid start. If you know that you dissociate, freeze, faun, get stuck, or have had issues with your boundaries, please reach out before attending so we can decide if this particular event is appropriate for you. Same goes for those with significant unresolved/unexamined trauma or those who enjoy drama dynamics.

Q: What can I bring?

A: Each event is different, so check the details for anything special you’ll need. It’s safe to say that each time you will want to bring a sarong or sheet, any altar items you like, tools/toys (anything from blindfolds to floggers that feel nice), safer sex supplies (lube, barriers, etc), and snacks are usually welcome.

Q: Can I invite friends?

A: Yes! The criteria for invites are that your friends have a strong “yes,” and a strong “no.” What that means is they are responsible for their experience, boundaries, and consent.

Q: Will there be a balance of genders?

A: No. We will never ask your gender because it doesn’t matter. Temple is for everyone.

Q: Who will be there?

A: We will never provide a list of who is coming. You’ll meet them when you arrive. If you have an issue with anyone at an event that can’t be resolved together please let us know.